How I Managed My Block Lists and Unblocked Friends

Blocking someone on social media can be a necessary step to protect oneself from harassment or negativity. However, as time passes, the reasons for the block may no longer apply, and the blocked individual may be someone you want to connect with again. In this article, I will share my personal experience with managing my block lists and unblocking friends on social media platforms.

Why I Blocked People

Over the years, I have blocked a few individuals on various social media platforms for different reasons. Some were trolls who posted offensive comments, while others were former friends with whom I had a falling out. In each case, I felt that blocking was the best option for my mental health and overall wellbeing.

How I Managed My Block Lists

Recently, I decided to take a look at my block lists on different social media platforms to see if there were any individuals I wanted to unblock. It was a simple process. On most platforms, I clicked on my profile, went to the settings or privacy tab, and found the blocked accounts section.

I was surprised to see that I had blocked more people than I had remembered. However, seeing their usernames again brought back memories of why I blocked them in the first place. Some of them were still posting negative or offensive content, while others had deleted their accounts.

Unblocking Friends

After reviewing my block lists, I realized that some of the individuals I had blocked were people I wanted to reconnect with. It was a nerve-wracking experience because I didn’t know how they would react, but I decided to unblock them and see what happens.

On most social media platforms, unblocking someone is just as easy as blocking them. I went to my block list, found the person’s username, and clicked “unblock.” However, that was just the first step. After unblocking them, I sent a message explaining why I blocked them in the first place and why I wanted to reconnect.

Reconnecting with Friends

To my surprise, most of the people I reached out to were open to reconnecting. Some were even surprised that I had blocked them in the first place and were happy to reconnect. It was an opportunity to clear the air and move on from past issues.

However, not everyone was receptive. Some people didn’t respond, while others responded negatively. It was a reminder that everyone handles situations differently, and it’s important to respect their decision.


Managing block lists and unblocking friends on social media can be a daunting task, but it’s important to evaluate your reasons for blocking someone and consider reconnecting with them if it feels right. It’s an opportunity to heal past wounds and move forward with a positive attitude. Remember that everyone has different perspectives and reactions, so be respectful and understanding of their choices.

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